I apologise wholeheartedly to friends and family! This tidying lark gets under your skin and once you get your head around it you don't seem to stop! As a friend summarised: Go big or go home Reflect Sweep through again Get rid of the nigglers Feel smug 🙂 Repeat And it really is that constant… Continue reading You’re keeping this, why???
Ok, the post mortems are in and the fake plotting finished. You know the fake plotting, where you sit with your girlfriends and devise evil things to do with the strict understanding that these things will NEVER happen and they are purely to vent and exorcise hurt emotions. Ok, so a while back I got… Continue reading Signs you may be dating a wrong ‘un!
This tidying lark has definitely changed things for the better! I cannot believe the amount of clutter I must have lived with previously. I totally get her thing of 'tidy once and tidy well' now except I've renamed it to 'go big or go home'. Here's the scenario - you spend a good few hours… Continue reading The Magic of Tidying – part 2
Have to be honest a friend got me this book years ago but it still sat on the shelf, she wasn't being mean saying 'oii your house is a tip' but she knows I have some dark days through poor mental health and knew that a happy house made a happy person. So, fast forward… Continue reading The Magic of Tidying
So a while ago I heard some sad news, I was sort of expecting it but it was still really sad and truthfully not fully taken it all in yet. However, that's almost immaterial because what I found odd was people's reactions to this news. We are almost overloaded with fake news, false stories and… Continue reading Lies on the internet
Ok, so we've messaged for a bit and must admit yes you've made me giggle. You don't appear to have offloaded any weird fetishes as oddly those with weird fetishes are VERY open about them and love to share right from the outset. Many a half drunk glass of wine has been spat over the sofa… Continue reading The messaging continues ….
Ahh the joys of the direct message!! Having been on twitter for a while they no longer shock me; surprise yes, make me giggle yes but shock no. I still think my favourite intimate DM of a guy was the one where I asked 'so where's your wife?' and got the reply 'she's in Asda… Continue reading Ooh I got a message!
Ok, so for some absurd reason I decided to put myself out there and join the scary world on online dating. Grab the popcorn, there's been some interesting twists and turns! Been single for a while now, not necessarily unhappy with life but just thought ok let's give this a whirl and see if there… Continue reading Internet Dating for beginners
The title is misleading for starters, because you don't feel, you are unable of distinguishing what is going on around you. It's just empty, not like a cave that echos and has odd flickering from water reflecting off the rock - it's just black and deathly quiet. The only sound is your internal battle thinking… Continue reading Depression and how it feels
I'd never heard of gas lighting before a few years ago, thought it was some archaic reference back to when houses actually had gas lights. Had no idea that I'd been subjected to it for many years, or even realised at the time what was going on. Manipulation is subtle, it's by stealth, and it's… Continue reading Warning, your lamps may be lit with gas