I totally get that you go on a few dates with someone and then think actually, not sure we are a good fit. However, have the decency to say that please! You go from a phone that doesn't stop beeping with constant messaging to zero, nothing, total freeze out. This does unfortunately now appear to… Continue reading Ghosting – the reality
So, the dating last year didn't exactly go that brilliantly! From a blog material view, it was rather excellent, from finding Mr Darcy - well let's just say Elizabeth Bennett got through a lot of TV box sets! So, friend said if you want to do it properly think you should go onto the paid… Continue reading New Year, new start!
Ok, so it's been a week since I had my sort of revelation moment, a week that I've been apologising to people that I needed to and also being honest with those that most matter to me. A lot can happen in a week! One thing I didn't anticipate is the uncovering of ghosts and… Continue reading Ghosts
This will be tough to write, it's probably the most honest thing I'll ever write and to those that know me in real life - accept it for what it is and next time you see me just give me a hug and say yeah we kind of figured anyway. So, yesterday was weird for… Continue reading The lonlieness of the damaged
So this weekend was emotionally tough yet wonderful. We have a nice guy who is rather fun to be around and then bam that awful question of 'what do you want?' oh bother we're not talking about a takeaway cause egg fried rice would be good, oh bother you're expecting a serious answer! However, the… Continue reading Unconditional Love
Wow, it's been a bit of a rollercoaster of a summer! I decided to have another go at that there online dating thing, and truthfully I don't know what I expected this time round. I think I entered into it a little more sceptical and that's why there was such a daft profile, almost a… Continue reading Tidying the mind = contentment
I know this will be a hard one to write, it was the basis for a lot of my hurt for a long time but I also recognise it's in the past. For many, getting pregnant and having a family is easy but for others it's difficult and for some like me it just doesn't… Continue reading Impossible Voyage for a Family