So, the dating last year didn't exactly go that brilliantly! From a blog material view, it was rather excellent, from finding Mr Darcy - well let's just say Elizabeth Bennett got through a lot of TV box sets! So, friend said if you want to do it properly think you should go onto the paid… Continue reading New Year, new start!

So we end the year (and the decade) by being single - yes folks I get dumped via message after dating this one - such a charmer!!  However, let's examine the clues that were always making me a little nervous and if I'm honest it wasn't entirely a shock, I knew I'd not fully opened up… Continue reading Clues trail prior to being dumped!

This will be tough to write, it's probably the most honest thing I'll ever write and to those that know me in real life - accept it for what it is and next time you see me just give me a hug and say yeah we kind of figured anyway. So, yesterday was weird for… Continue reading The lonlieness of the damaged

Ok, firstly this is meant as a light hearted thing, I don't carry malice or anger towards those that choose to take these pills each day.  Truthfully I feel a little sad that they have such low self worth they feel the need to inflict themselves on others but that's their choice but it does… Continue reading Wainbows – the rainbow of w&*k$£y

Ok, the post mortems are in and the fake plotting finished.  You know the fake plotting, where you sit with your girlfriends and devise evil things to do with the strict understanding that these things will NEVER happen and they are purely to vent and exorcise hurt emotions.  Ok, so a while back I got… Continue reading Signs you may be dating a wrong ‘un!

So a while ago I heard some sad news, I was sort of expecting it but it was still really sad and truthfully not fully taken it all in yet.  However, that's almost immaterial because what I found odd was people's reactions to this news.   We are almost overloaded with fake news, false stories and… Continue reading Lies on the internet