Twas the night before Christmas and nothing was stirring, not even a mouse - well that's an epic fail for starters given the way two fluffy things are staring at the welsh dresser and listening for the squeaking. Little gits have obviously captured one but not clever enough to get it - great, dead mouse… Continue reading Twas the night before Christmas ……
10 Red Flags to dating??
It occurred to me that with the lifting of lockdown and our general change in moods many will once again be considering dating, whether using online sites, introductions from friends or seeing colleagues in a new light. And this is great, it makes for a fun time BUT as we all know sometimes things don’t… Continue reading 10 Red Flags to dating??
Body shaming and why it’s not ok!
This has bothered me for some time now, and especially when I witness outright hurtful comments on social media towards others. Ok, firstly we are all different!! We are meant to be, you can eat exactly the same as another person and we'll each put weight on or lose it differently - let's firstly deal… Continue reading Body shaming and why it’s not ok!
New Year, new start!
So, the dating last year didn't exactly go that brilliantly! From a blog material view, it was rather excellent, from finding Mr Darcy - well let's just say Elizabeth Bennett got through a lot of TV box sets! So, friend said if you want to do it properly think you should go onto the paid… Continue reading New Year, new start!
Clues trail prior to being dumped!
So we end the year (and the decade) by being single - yes folks I get dumped via message after dating this one - such a charmer!! However, let's examine the clues that were always making me a little nervous and if I'm honest it wasn't entirely a shock, I knew I'd not fully opened up… Continue reading Clues trail prior to being dumped!
Ghosts
Ok, so it's been a week since I had my sort of revelation moment, a week that I've been apologising to people that I needed to and also being honest with those that most matter to me. A lot can happen in a week! One thing I didn't anticipate is the uncovering of ghosts and… Continue reading Ghosts
The lonlieness of the damaged
This will be tough to write, it's probably the most honest thing I'll ever write and to those that know me in real life - accept it for what it is and next time you see me just give me a hug and say yeah we kind of figured anyway. So, yesterday was weird for… Continue reading The lonlieness of the damaged
Unconditional Love
So this weekend was emotionally tough yet wonderful. We have a nice guy who is rather fun to be around and then bam that awful question of 'what do you want?' oh bother we're not talking about a takeaway cause egg fried rice would be good, oh bother you're expecting a serious answer! However, the… Continue reading Unconditional Love
Tidying the mind = contentment
Wow, it's been a bit of a rollercoaster of a summer! I decided to have another go at that there online dating thing, and truthfully I don't know what I expected this time round. I think I entered into it a little more sceptical and that's why there was such a daft profile, almost a… Continue reading Tidying the mind = contentment
Impossible Voyage for a Family
I know this will be a hard one to write, it was the basis for a lot of my hurt for a long time but I also recognise it's in the past. For many, getting pregnant and having a family is easy but for others it's difficult and for some like me it just doesn't… Continue reading Impossible Voyage for a Family
